sorry for the un-updated blog:(
i'm not in the mood to blog these days..
my AS exam is approaching annd i have to study..
yessss i have to study..v v gadhaya....
i'm not in the mood to blog these days..
my AS exam is approaching annd i have to study..
yessss i have to study..v v gadhaya....
i juz want to discuss sumthn with u ..
why do some girls let some "gooooood" boys down??
I mean...like for example
a girl X is luvd by a very gooood boy Y who shares all the
things with her and comforts her..
a boy Z who is a drug addict, a smoker loves the same girl
annd he proposes to X..
first time the girl rejects ....
but later when Z shows his feelings and
his luv for her she goes with Z..
leaving the innocent guy who truly and
madly loved the girl..
only bcoz of the sympathy she felt for him...
ofcourse..the boy Y gets hurted annd depressed too..
i dunno y some girls feel sympathy for that kind of
people....
.....???
juz thought of discussing u all..as this was the hot topic
in my class today..
o.O
=black butterfly=
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40 comments:
hmm... gud point.. y did she got to him? wat will she gain after going with him? she wil urely b kicked after sumtym. o will b a victim to b abused. he will luv her he says. but he doesnt understand luv. if he does, wats the point of taking drugs dhoow? mee anekka swyt ge class mate kurikamebba? o dhimaavi kamebba? aslu raajjeyga egothah v feney.. i noticed too. even v close frend of mine experienced. but it is the other way too.. boys also deceive gud girls and go for girls for there nyds. so cannot say it happens to only gud boys dhoww. hehe. v v dhigukoh vaahaka dhakkaa hiyvvey. but i will short from here. :P
-Mysterious-
YEII.. am first to comment.. ingeytha? miadhu haadha ginairu vandhen inymey swyt o maroon rose and optimus ge post eh kureytho. swyt emme furathama kury. and its going to HOT topic. hehe.. am looking forward to all the comments that will come here. varah 'zuvaabu' kollaa kahala topic eh dhoo?? :P :P -Mysterious-
alheyyyy.. i jus cant resist nuliye. mihaaru eyge meehun v ginain feney. adhi vaagothaky ekahala meehunna jehigen gos kithamme rangalhu meehevves anekka goas vegen dhany. that goes for both girls and boysz. v dheravey ehen dhanna ekkoh ulhun v v rangalhu kudhin egothah avaige jehigen sympathyvegen gos halaakuvaathan. i myn, wats the point of fyling sympathy for them? sympathyviyas nujeheyne dho rattehivegen dhaakah eyna aa ekkoh. jus b a frend and try kurevidhaane dho eyna rangalhu kuruvan? nuvejjeyya e ee eynage fault akadhves nuhedheynenun ho? komme meehakavves buhdhi dhevvaafa vey. rangalhaa nubai vakikuran jeheyne ingen. egothah vaki nukurevey meehunnah sympahy vumaky thimaa amilla avvaes rangalhaa nubai vaki nuvun dho? asluves v dheravey. mi mujuthamu halaakuvegen dhanyves ehenve kanneynge.. dhen faharaku meehakaa rattehi vegen gos e anhen kujjaa o firihen kujja vaany 'badi' kujjakah. firinnaa ambinna dheythere jassaa myhakah. eyeh noonennun ulhen v gothaky dho?
v sory ehaa dhigu v ma. but v liyelaa hivvy hama hithuga oi echcheh.
-Mysterious-
May be that good boy haven't expressed his feeling to her...
Those other boys are so good in expressing feelings.another things, evry one what a good grl,whether that boy is a smoker or drug edict,he also want a good grl in his life to change him.they also don't wanna spent there entire life like that.
Grl's choose them cos they r cool.(without the drug part)
mysterious: u have lot of hates for them dhooo...lol,
yaa rattehi vumuge benume nei, can be a friend, but they also need help. can't just kick them out from the mujuthamau.
Raglhaa nubai vaki kireveny kon bayaka mihaaraka ais...???
The dhekki haththahaafen ragalhu vaahaka, but.......
huh??? but wat??
-Mysterious-
juss sum surls dunt think abt otherx ge feelings....
welll helping the other one is not a bad thing.. but giving up sumone who luvs her is a bad thing.. she is practically playing with sumone's feelings..
and tht is real bAD...
i dunno y many gurls juss have to find sum kinda reason to break up with real innocent guys...
i agree with ®Uk§.. some girls jus dnt thnk dho.. ekam fahun dheravaane
cuz...in this life...good is veiled from the bad ..soo...girls r...u know...way too more sensitive..(myself decluded:P) nice posty dear
vedhaane dho girl X boy Y dheke like nuvany kamahves or X beynunvee kanney dho Z aa rahtehivegen Z rangalhu kuran dhen Z rangalhu kurevihjaa, dats a big achievement for her ey dho, ofcourse dats a great achievement but usually things dont go dat way dho?? sifa ah balaifa lbivaa kuhajakah X vehjaa, Y ah vure Z reethi veema Z aa rahtehi vedhaanehnu.. dho... dhen eki meehunge likes and dislikes thafaathu vaanehnu dho
< AFoo >
"Y" the gud boy propose kohfa fahun noolhunyma girl heekury kanney dho "Y" dnt love her really ey even dho he is so caring....
< APhooo >
ekahala drug addicts ah sympathy viyas maa close vegen gos dhen finally rahtehivumakee in my opinion ehaa rangalhu kameh noon... dhen bune ehnu dho love is blind ey... dhen blind vegen gos drug addict akahves rahtehiveveni kanney dho.. rangalhah nuvisnaala.. hehe..
< APHOoo >
dhen keekey bunaani...??? some girls varah visnaanulaa kuraa kameh e dho??? baeh girls heekohfaane dho if she rejects his proposal, dat drug addict e gal fahathun nunehteney.. dhen e myhunge bodethi gangs hunnaaney... e myhun thah ves e gal ah dhimaakohfaaney magumathyga ulhey iru...
mihen vedhaanetha? :P
< APHOOo >
hey butterfly hows my comments???
hehe
< APHOOo >
*mysterious* yesss u r right..e girl useless meehaka hadhaafa he will leave her..
classmate aka dhimaavi kame noon..
and u r ryt..boys also deceive girls annd go for other girls..but in my opinion its not the way it should be..andhavalhaka vettumuge kurin emeehegge life salaamai kurumaky konme meehakuves kuranjeheyne kame..dhera gothe veema mee hurigothey kiyaafa nuhureveyne kan neyge...
*®Uk§* that good boy eynage fylings express nukuriyas..i think girls a ingeynehen..girls are not that much gamaaru..don't u??
when a bad boy is good at expressing his fylings annnd his behaviour girl a fennairu ves girls sympathy fyl vey..
correct..each boy needs a good girl in his life annd ekala bad meehun rangalhu kuruvumaky society ge konme meehegge ves responsibility e..
annnd yess..GIRLS ARE COOOOL...
*Anonymous* aan ekahala meehun dheke like vaany dhen konbae??
hmmm gamaaaru ppl dhw btw???
*lillly* aan thy rangalhu vaahakae..
*aphaa* aan dhw? fahun dheravegen roane...but eyru onnany vaguthu faaithuvefa..dhw??
*dhiboy* thankuuuu...
*starrr* girls are sensitive decluding your self..hahaaa..thats majaaa...
thankssssh starrrrr
thankx for all ur comments....
alright!!! its this stupid thing called love. hard to explain u c...its not cause of being good or bad or taking drugs or eating sweets... even though the good guy is like all helpful and stuff.. and i think thats what called freynds...and the bad guy.. awesomeness and koolness with a adventures kick...something like that?
ps. i lost what i was thinkin halfway thru the comment..so it mite feel like u are readin nonsense :D..good question btw
hehe yeah.. sometimes vaguthu faaithu vaane.. but at times innocent guys inthizaaru kuraane ;)
*aphooo* aan eki meehunge likes aa dislikes thafaathuvaane..annd yess rangalhu kurevijjeyya evaany a big achievement aka..ekam kon gurantee e othy rangalhukureveyne kamuge??
ane boy dheke lyk nuvedhaane but wats the use of goin with a guy lyk Z??
aan luv is blind..ehenve kan neyge dhw??
ur comments are best ingey aphooooo...
*pompi* its not nonsense..
yess good guy is helpful and kind too..is that only a character of "friends"??
i don't think sooo..different people will show their love in different ways..i think..
*aphaa* aan dhw???
thanks butterfly =D
< APHOo >
nice post....in my opinion there is no use of getting sympathy of that kind of boys and girls..in these days not only girls r doin this to gud boys.bt boys r doin samethin to gud girls also..if v r getting sympathy like this then i think evryones lifes becum hell.bt evryone needs help to get rid of that drug...ekamaku rangalhu vaan ulhey baey rangalhu vaanee kithanme vara kah help viyas...if they dnt want they no one can help.even parents cant.so think how will girl help them as a frend o girfrl/boyfrend..so v shud think before takin any decisions.i think its gud to make his o her life patner,more than the one who v luv is better than the who luvs us.i have seen many happy life like that.thats y i said like that...i can say only think before take any decision....
its a hot topic in ur comments too..:) but u cant really blame people... u like soeone u like them, it dont matter that they smoke or drink or they're a drug addict... and its definitely nt sympathy....
dhakkan variety toh saare species mein hoti hi hai :)
it a nice topic. cox, girls nowadays run behind drug-addicted people rather than innocent and polite people.
i know these drug addicted people some much, they over act always. for any case they will simply create a big story and start crying. and this could make the girl sympathy and make her love him.
but theres less chance for a good girl to be in this case. cox, good girls will mostly never listen to those drug addicts. and also a good girl will never leave a good boy.
so there is a big problem with the girl also.
so, i can say that if this is a real case. then the girl in this case is not so innocent or innocent most probably.
thats not only for sympathy butterfy. u can't understant coz ur a juz kid. hehehe, now a day these girls r
looooooooking 4 bad thing. o love. girls o women always think to destory sum1s o to spoil a haapi life of sum1.leave that part, thats only one o two ppls live know. n come to this point. if v want to destsry a country, no need Ak47. just choose a bottle of vine n a GIRL O WOMAN. i kno this is out of topic but.....
hurihaa nubaaa kamakah magu dhakaaani girls o woman.
sorry 4 late comment.
these drugs adicted ppl dhw, these one are most likly to actors/actress
they will make fake stories and get ppls attentions. but some bad gals like, her will feel sympathy dhew.
thats what i think....
==optimus==
* cutegirl* oh i've heard it the other way..living with one who luvs us is better than living with the one we luv..keke..
*everythingburns* hehee...surely u have a very different way of thinking..
*trinaa* thanx for your comment..
*notense* yess yesss...u r totally correct...is that a thing u experienced??
those parteys are very good at creating stories aand acting..they are good at that work rangalhu girls track in beyru kohleveyvara..
the girl here is an innocent one..ekam she lost her path bcox of parteys stories and his acting:(
*maroonrose* hmm atlast u r here dhw?? c'mone don't say i'm a kid...
i'm not a kid...
oh u r saying girls are strong weapons huh??girls becum bad most of the tym bcoz of boys...this is true...i've seen such people my dearieee..!!!
then dhw? i also kno girls are good at jumpin into lyf's of people..some shameless people do it..anhennunna vaairu ves anekunge fylings a nuvisnaa bae, ekahala meehunnaky..those badi people will get a goood lesson in their life one day..
there are cases that i can blame girls..but not in this case of X,Y and Z..
*optimus* sympathy feel vany girl bad veema ennoon..sympathy is a good sifa e girls ge hunna...but sympathy vaan nujehey situations ga sympathy vaathy massala aky..
hmm... thanks for believing little butterfly...
and its not bcox i've experienced it. but its bcox i've seen some of their great stories and acting.
once again. thanks..
hey! good luck to your exams :)
i love your blog!
keep it up!
thanks!!!!
thi hama rangalhu vaahaka eh!! gal akah viyas bunan tha!! mihaaru thi aammukameh..thi gal adhi fahun dheravegen anburaa dhaane rangalhu kujjaa kairiyah.. i wonder if the rangalhu kujjaa eyna yah secound chance eh dhey tho.. o.O anyway.. nice post.. keep writing... u r blog rocks..
love is all about feelings. sometimes u fall in love with someone who dsn't even care for u n u tend to reject the one who loves u.
sometimes infatuation also plays a big role. like power, studdness, being macho all these also attracts girls. some girls think that smoking and consuming drugs are cool thing and by hanging around with such boys will make them cool too.
but at last it is the matter of our feelings.
all d best to ur xms. and wish u a very happy new year ahead
*sterndal* thankxxx
*PemPeNeyNo AnEsThEyShiYa* aan dhw?? gal a second faharu dheveyiru gina faharu onnany vaguthu faaithuvefa dhw??
thankshh..
*preety* u r very right preety..
some girls have a such a feeling..
and thank a lottt
Hi...Experience almost the same case.. I mean my hubby is a great man and I love him so much..but there's another man that I regret my I can't love him back tough he is very nice..
Life is about choices I guess...Let's live it the best we can :)
the comments made here is very true. i shouldnt be commenting here but...
in my opinion these drug addicts. they express there feelings so deeply that u cannot resist. at first you wont even try to talk to them.. but these people they don't give up. once they stick there unconscious mind on something,they make sure they reach the target in this case the person "Z"'s target was "X".believe it or not he will be thinking all day with his unconscious mind of a way to get her or in other words get in her pants. like us normal people will be having to think about work,life, and many other bullshit things and we leave a little or less amount of time thinking about the girl. in other words care from a girls mouth. So this girl thinks okay "Y" doesnt think much i must leave him and go to "Z". Because "Z" has all the time in the world to be with her.. its common sense. he'd either be running or walking on the streets to get some dope and comming back after using it.. or maybe use it at home. and yeah... maybe you should moderate this part. Sex or love making with these people is just great. because they wouldnt be feeling anything but the girl... u know what. they have a slow paced mind.which makes them last longer than an everage person. i bet most of the girls now adays look for this.or maybe am too perverty to think like that.i've seen these kind of people change. if they do its great but there's a 99% chance of them being relapsed due to depression or maybe girl or family problems. this is what i hear from them. ... should i stop from here.. or go on. depends on the comments after this.
good question.. but i dont have an answer
niklen.. haadha dhigu comment eh??? but u r very correct.. ^_^
*Rila* yess life is about choices and most of the time we dunno to take the right decision..
wish u all the best to your life..:)
*Nicklen* your comment is very interesting..i'd like to know more about it..as this is a case one of my close friend is having..
i think u are v true..the drug addicted people are very good at expressing their feelings than a normal boy..
normal people like Y don't have much time to think about how to get the heart of a girl as they are busy at their works..but Z they spend all their time to do, to get wat they want...
i'd like to hear more from you...
and thanku for the long long comment..one of the best comment i got from you..thankshhh
*kunal* u don't have an ans??
boys shud kno about it..:(
*pempiii* aan dhw??nicklen is right
hehe thanks.. u make me shy :* hehe
your doing a great job
zahraan
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