Thursday, December 18, 2008

A Question...


I have a question for you all...
Do girls/guys care a lot about looks orr more about personality and intelligence??
wat do you think??

Urghhh..well .. in my view..it depends on the nature of the person..right??
when they are in student life they care about only their looks..
but after finishing schools..they take care of their looks, personality plus intelligence..
am i right??

how is your thinking about this??
=black butterfly=
(Image taken from DeviantArt)

19 comments:

♥♥āphúя §hāfÿú♥♥ said...

actually, even after their school-life, there are some guys n dolls who jus go for looks.. hold on! not only looks, but money as well:S
its reallii a bummer, but there r onlii very few ppl in this world who reallii care about others personality than their appearance,,
according to me, i thnk a person should actually be judged according to their way/nature.. looks are deceiving.. so when searchin for a frnd, or a guy, dont go for looks.. try to get to know the other person first :)

shootingstar said...

well..in my opinion..looks,intelligence,love and money..4 things are important in lives..but it has grades...for an example..u wouldn't really wana be with sum1 whom u dont like in appearance(different pple like different appearance..(black,white,fat,skinny..slender..being goodlooking doesnt mean just being white n skinny..)believe me..my bestfriend likes chubby guys...hehe,but above all..god made humans as the most good looking creature on earth..but it differs frm the inviduals perspective..i agree with apha,looks cud deceive but its not only the looks that deceive..even the intelligence(using great words to impress) and about love,..u'd know better..n money..its essential for living right..
so a combination of these cud be gud... :)

Anonymous said...

woww... nw there is nuthing to say by me.. :S professor aphu and professor star has spoken :D hehe... wel.. i dont care about my looks.. i fyl that building the inner strength is far more important (which i am having trouble too) than the looks outside. only then s/he will become successful on wat s/he does. with great looks u dont get great brains. but with great brains, u get gud looks. not only outside, but inside. annnd in this world, its not the looks that is making ppl liv in this world. money is needed in evrythin. gud luks helps more less now. we hav to think alternative ways to get a clear picture of gettin the money. y waste it on us to b gud looking? after all we will again become bak ashes. i am nw struggling to build bak up my inner strength wich i hav lost sumtime nw. plz help.
-Mysterious-

swyt butterfly said...

*Aphaa* yess u r correct!!there are people who juz go for their looks and money. we can't judge a person looking his/her face..but we can judge them by their personality..i guess..

*Star* yea..looks could deceive..
i never judge a person by their looks..a person maybe not good looking but still he/she may have some goood qualities..I agree with u ...


*mysterious* thats a goood point,
inner strength is very important to build our lives..if we lack it how can we judge things whether its right orr wrong??if we lack it we will go on doing the bad stuffs..u will kno very well wat i'm talking about..
the outside looks is not important..but the thing is u shud have some goood qualities inside..i'm here to help u...


thanks a lot for all your opinions:):):)

Jahnabi Roy said...

guys below 25 think abt the luks...period! beyond that...i gess nature...
n girls...save for a very few exceptions... they go for the overall personality and nature...

ps: blogrolled u.

♥♥āphúя §hāfÿú♥♥ said...

ur welcome butterflyy (**,)

Preetilata【ツ】 said...

it all depends on nature, age, peer groups and many things. with growing maturity one gives more importance to personality and intelligence. because u wud be called a dumb inspite of having good looks but no intelligence n personality. even a average looking or not at all good looking man/woman can do wonders with personality and intelligence. n the world around us is full of such examples :)

swyt butterfly said...

*everything burns* yess guyz below25 think about their looks..but i think more than guyz gals think of their looks..
most of the time guyz think of their personality..i guess


*preety* i agree..there are people who think of personality but not all..some.. some doesn't care of their personality..having a good look they think they will get watever they want..the world aroundus is full of such examples..i think..
most of the time the aged people they think of personality..but do the youth??

lilly said...

well i think... its juss different ppl ge nature dho..
sum juss think abt there luks...
sumonly think abt intteligence and stuph..
others think abt totally everythin...
and i DUNNO.. =P

Optimus said...

i depends dhoa
ofcurze me !!!!
i try to b in good look
and to keep my IQ in 100%
but most of gals go 4 looks i think
than boyz

♀♀♀♀♀OPTIMUS PRIME♀♀♀♀♀

mArOoNrOsE said...

hmmm swyt. m thinking still thinkin but i don't kno. I think it depend on his/her environment. m just looooooking to build my interlligence

swyt butterfly said...

*lillyy* yesss u r rigt!!~


*optimus* so kyp on with your work..and i advice you to have a good personality which is important the other to judge you..


*maroonrose* i'm not sure but there maybe some influences because of the environment too..
u look only for your intelligence???i don't think sooo....

thanks for your chweet chweet comments;)

cutegirl said...

its depending on different peoples nature.....sum will think abt there luks and others will there intelligens and stuffs dhoa.....also sum will think abt evrything....this is wat i think..i dnt knw wat to say dhen:P

R.K.Wawilly said...

Ur right about that, In school ppl concentrate only on looks, should be smart... better then another grl or boy.
i think grls are more concern to looks then boys.
Well after school in job market its different story, U have to have a personality.... (i don't understand this personality) hehe.
in addition to that have to be intelligent to to get respect.

Then in love life, its totally different, the inner character helps most.

swyt butterfly said...

*cute girl* yess it depends on their nature...


*ruks* u r right..i agree with you..in this case u and my thinking are same..touch..keke..

thankshh for your comments..

pOmPi said...

good question...it differs :S but gotta hav a sense of humor .thats a must

swyt butterfly said...

yesss pompi

Anonymous said...

hehe.. emmen eki goi gothah liyunas hama mikiyeny ekachcheh dhoww :P :P
-Mysterious-

swyt butterfly said...

aaaan dhw??